The Change...

Hey guys!
It has totally been on my heart to update you guys on my journey. What journey you ask? Well, my journey on the road to freedom, of course! The event that I put together last December was REALLY just the beginning!
To be able to let go of things...accept things...and change things for the betterment of CRYSY, has been a life changing experience to say the least. The things I used to  do, places I used to go, a few of the people I used to associate with...No longer appeal to me! Honey, Crysy used to be in the club 4 nights out of the week! Now..IF I go out, I'm like, "Where's the food?"
Let's go eat or let's go to church! Feed my body or my soul! LOL
Wednesday night was a party night for me. Now, you can catch me at Lakewood!(You're welcome to join me)
At the end of every service at Lakewood church, they say "Give us 1 year of your life, you'll never be the same." Last night, when John Gray said that...I realized IT'S TRUE! Last year this time, I was NOT the person I am. Granted, 2016 was definitely a year of transformation for me, attending Lakewood over the years has definitely changed me.

Oh, and he's NOT done with me yet! (insert praise break)

I've come to realize that, as a result of  a variety of happenings throughout my life, I have subconsciously conditioned myself to think, act and do certain things.
The bitter single woman that used to go IN on the "losers" she met, has been in a relationship for a minute now! Only AFTER, I was able to look at MYSELF and realize, It was ME! 

Stinkin' thinkin' as Pastor Remus Wright says. As the saying goes though, "When you know better, you do better". I'm thankful that I can make adjustments where needed. I'm thankful that God has chosen me to share my journey with you all and inspire you in ways that I've never even imagined. Most of all, I am thankful that I am walking into my purpose and being who God called me to be.

There is a quote that says, "When you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right things a chance to catch you." As I go through this transformation, I've met some awesome people and done some great things. Most of which, I have never imagined myself doing. That is because my mind and heart were in the wrong places!  When I tell you things have worked out for me in ways, I've never even thought of! God has blessed me all of my life, but I look at things differently now that I am more so seeking to do things in God's will.

To be totally honest, changing is NOT easy! But, it's necessary!  Some days I get discouraged and distracted. I've lost friends and don't even know why! I'm not invited to participate in certain business related things. Out with "friends". Things don't work out how I want them to. For whatever reason. Hey, it bothers me, but I can't let any of that get me off track! The enemy uses those things to take your focus off of the bigger picture. I'm exactly where I am supposed to be, doing what I should, with who I should. Seasons change! I just have to be ready when they do!

 I can't give up. I've come too far. Seriously. I'm not supposed to be here. The devil has had it in for me for awhile. God has kept me on more than one occasion, do you hear me!? Like, Held.It.DOWN POP style! LOL

 There are people that probably look at the things I post and say on social media in disbelief...how can SHE post all that stuff about church and God?
Shoot, why NOT me?
If he can do it for me... if he can pull ME out of such a dark place... he can definitely do it for YOU!
The struggle is real, but so is God! Ok!!!??

Until next time,

Walk in faith, live in victory.

-Crysy

The Road to Freedom

"On the other side of fear, is freedom"

Man, isn't that the truth! As I posted in a previous post, I planned and put together a cute little women's empowerment event, The Road to Freedom"

I have NEVER done anything like that! I stepped completely out of my comfort zone(and out on FAITH) with this one, guys! I actually asked people for help and advice, something I NEVER do.

When I started planning this event, I kept getting little signs from everywhere that THIS is what I am supposed to be doing. A random man at church said to me, "I want to encourage you sister, to keep using your voice to encourage others". They way everything fell together and ended up being exactly what I prayed for(and more) though...nothing but GOD!

My beautiful speakers and myself

I had women come and share their unique stories(as well as myself). Each of these women have inspired me with their stories and  KNEW  that they would inspire they ladies that attended. I had goal planning exercises and activities to prepare to have a better 2017. I'm still getting great feedback from the attendees as well as the speakers a whole week later! The ladies realized things about themselves, they were able to set personal goals and plans to better themselves. Shoot, one of my speakers was so liberated by speaking, she cut her hair off and began her natural hair journey! All of the women that attended enjoyed themselves and came away with SOMETHING new! The fact that we could all be transparent and help one another was awesome.  We laughed, cried, shared and

bonded. Exactly what I wanted! What an awesome way to end one year and go into another!

One of the attendees, posted an activity we did

When I initially, started planning the event, I said that if I had 15 women attend, I'd be ok. Then I said 20. Well, I ended up with almost 30 women that registered! Look at GOD! Every thing I normally would have worried about, God worked it out! From the venue down to my handouts. I had no idea that the ladies would take so much from a handout (I wasn't going to do one) and one of my coworkers suggested that I do. We had yummy Jambalaya from Shawnie of HouOrleans Cuisine, and other light bites including some tasty cupcakes ....and a little cocktail! LaTai of Honey Shoots was in the building capturing some great shots!

Look out Iyanla!!! lol

Surprisingly, I wasn't nervous or scared putting it together. I thought about what I would say and it literally came to me RIGHT as I was speaking to the ladies. I knew that God would give me the words to say and of course he did!
I am SO thankful and overjoyed that my event came out the way that it did. Even though this is something that has been on my mind, I never imagined myself actually putting together a whole event alone AND speaking and being transparent in front of a full room of women! There is something about being free and fearless that is actually CALMING.

The ladies are asking for a part 2. Of course there will be a part 2! I'm definitely not stopping now! This is JUST the beginning, baby!

I've had men ask for an event too! Who knew!
I found my purpose in this. To Encourage. Inspire. and Empower.
Yes, I still love fashion. Yes, I will still be a stylist. But what's a beautiful lady in a bad outfit, if she's ugly, bruised, bitter, angry and/or broken on the inside?
I will definitely keep you posted on upcoming events!
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Have a Marvelous Monday!
Crysy

The ladies and I. My heart is SO full!!



!!!! Im Excited !!!!

Hey ya'll heyyyyyyyyyy!

Yes, It's Wednesday...No, This isn't a Working Woman Wednesday post...I am working on something, though!  

I want to share with you something that I'm SUPER excited about!

Inspiration and encouragement of people is very important to me..... Over the years I have ALWAYS been that friend that people randomly go to for one of the two(and then some, lol). I can remember that as far back as middle school! I am an only child. I know what it's like to be alone with no one to talk to. I know what it's like to be surrounded with friends and still no one to talk to. I've been bullied. I've bullied. I've been a mean girl. I've been targeted by mean girls. I've loved. I've lost. Been crossed. Been lied to. Been discouraged. Been scared. Been fearful. Been there done that. Matters what stage in life I encountered those things. Hey, I may write a book about it! Who knows! I've grown(still am), matured, and can be better because I know better.  

One thing I DO know is that, PEOPLE NEED PEOPLE!  There is something about the confirmation, reassurance, wisdom, affirmation, compassion, words etc. from others that does something to our soul! Regardless of who we are, that is like the cherry on top of the cake of life. LOL

For years, I have had this thought in the back of my mind that I want to do an event for women. To empower and inspire none the less, but something GREAT. The other day that thought randomly came back to me, and God said, "Just do it. Don't worry about EVERYTHING(I am a worrier), just know that it will ALL fall in place". So....here I am. Putting this event together. I got all these ideas! God put a few special women on my heart. To ask to participate. Still, don't know exactly what I'm doing but just be a part! Thank God all of them loved my idea and were on board! LOL A date came to mind. I wanted to do it before the new year, in the New Year, New Me season(LOL). No seriously, to prepare us to kick 2017's ass...no matter what we encountered in 2016! Let's teach/learn with each other, share, inspire, be open, be honest, be transparent, be a shoulder/ear, BE US!
We will talk, laugh, share, encourage...maybe even cry. Most importantly we will leave renewed, restored, rejuvenated and READY for 2017.
I want to create something GREAT for women. Not just African American women, either. Everything is so divided these days. All women need this. And all women are welcome. We have a lot to learn from our sisters!

Of course there will be food...and drinks...and sweets!

This will be EPIC!
Oh and did I mention that I'll be conquering MY fears as well and reaching goals at the same time??? Look at God!
So stay tuned and get ready!
Saturday December 17!!!!  (location and time TBA)

XoXo

Crysy

Working Woman Wednesday - Ta Morrison

It's Wednesday!!!! You know what that means!? I have another fabulous working woman to share with you!!!

Ta(pronounced TY) Morrison.... what can I say about this BOSS!?
We have been friends on social media for years! When I say this lady is ALWAYS doing something??? Hosting trips, meet & greets, parties/events for different causes, drives, a fundraiser...you name it, she does it! I'm like low key living vicariously through her or whatever, LOL.

Ta boast that she is a HR professional by day and an entrepreneur 24/7. She is an ambitious country girl from the small town of Hearne, TX and after living in Dallas for about 20 years, she's has lived in Houston since 2009. She has a degree in Business Administration with a Concentration in Human Resources. Ta loves to travel so she has owned and operated Star Class Travel Agency(accredited by IATA) for about 6 years. She actually started as a travel agent when her friends and family coming to her with travel inquiries and booking information. Star Class Entertainment focuses on events and entertainment, has been operating for 1.5 years. She manages music artists, groups also!

Star Class Travel is a well sought after travel agency, offering specialized trips and excursions! Really nice trips too! Party bus trips, trips to sporting events, cruises, girlfriend getaways, couples trips, domestic and international... you name it!!! "These trips are put together to give travelers a once in a life time experience. Plus I’m with them on the trip as well.", says Ta. I WILL go on one of these trips someday, ok??

Why do people love Star Class Travel? Ta boasts, "We treat everyone like they are family and we make everyone feel like a star."
Ta is motivated by achieving her goals or doing things she was told she couldn’t do. Besides being a uber boss chic, Ta is an advocate of self love as well as the Texas ambassador for National Curves Day!

When asked what inspires her, she replied, "Life. Life has been my biggest inspiration. Regardless how many obstacles I have faced each day I’m motivated to keep pushing."

In the future, Ta plans on her business growing in the private sector Travel and more Entertainment trips. She also wants to start a T-shirt Line, open a lounge and getting a helicopter for this Houston traffic. Ha!

"I’m a supportive, caring and loving person. I truly want everyone to win." says Ta.
Let's definitely support Ta and ALL of  her endeavors!!
Maybe a Crysy and crew themed trip in the future! (hmmmmmm)
Keep up with Ta and Star Class Entertainment  here

Star Class Travel here

That Crysy themed trip doesn't sound so bad, hunh??

Let's keep our sisters supported, encouraged and uplifted!

Until next time....

XoXo

Crysy

Fearless!!!!

Man!!!

Let me tell u guys something.....FEAR is a silent killer!! It will kill your hopes, dreams, plans, your overall energy...EVERYTHING!

I have been letting fear rule my life for WAY too long!
What am I afraid of you ask? Just fear in general...fear of the unknown, fear of being broke, rejection(various forms), wasting time/money,fear that my products/inventory wont sell....fear, fear, fear...Ugh...
Some times, fear is ruling and I don't even know it. It's like I conditioned myself to act and think a certain way!
Past experiences can definitely have a long lasting affect on your life....IF YOU ALLOW THEM TO.

Unfortunately fear has had a dramatic affect on my business and personal lives. I wouldn't do certain things, go certain places, create certain things, collaborate on certain projects, or attend events...just because I was AFRAID . This has happened over the course of a few years.

People have been encouraging me and pushing me to be greater for years. You know its great when people see things in you and for you that you don't see yourself?! I am forever grateful for that. But as someone told me, You have to be in a place to receive what God has for you. SO true! I wasn't readyyyyy (Kevin Hart voice)

BUT....At some point I had to tell myself, "GOD has this under control!". Like there is nothing in this world that ANYONE can prevent or take from me. They don't have that power...because anything that is meant for me, will be. Point blank.  Regardless of who I collab with, what event I go to, what products I make or don't...what is meant for Crysy will be! I can't talk faith and not practice it! No way! How will I ever prosper that way? How can I be afraid to be GREAT?

I have been on a quest for a closer relationship with God and I can't proceed if I don't trust him fully.

I recently had the pleasure of going on a Spring break trip to Destin, FL. Totally relaxing and great trip. Anyway, a friend suggested jet skiing.....Uh....jet skiing? Who me?? Was what I was thinking. Going jet skiing is the furthest thing from my mind. Seriously! All these things went thru my mind: "What if I flip over"...."Fall off"....all kinds of things. Just scared for no reason. Fear of the unknown, because I had no idea of what would happen!

BUT GOD....he spoke to me...
And it hit me....GO! Get your ass on that jet ski! For all the things that have held you back...for all the moves you didn't make and things you were scared to do! F^&* Fear!! (excuse my French). So I went. When he speaks, YOU MOVE.
To say that it was the most exhilarating experience would be an understatement!

I literally rode that thing yelling, "F&*% Fear" as loud as I could!

I was alone, in the huge body of water not knowing what would happen next....Just me and GOD...I prayed...I sang(Tasha Cobbs "Fill Me Up" and "Break Every Chain")...I talked to GOD. I have never felt more at peace, to be honest.

As I revved that jet ski up to 7mph...(don't laugh! It seemed to be going pretty fast!) I have never felt more sure about myself ...EVER.

Like all the things that people have been telling me for years finally registered in my OWN mind.

I GOT THIS! Finally!

I felt that I needed this experience. I had to go. Like I couldn't wait for another moment of declaration. This was it. I'm so glad I went though, it was over due!

One night at bible study at The Lighthouse Church, Pastor Keion Henderson made a point that basically said that you can be all over social media posting quotes and scriptures when YOU really need the encouragement. Ya'll know I love a good quote and scripture! But I was more so posting it for myself! I needed the encouragement! Sure I wanted to share, but how can I preach if I need the word??? This day, I had to really encourage myself and trust in God for the outcome. Not to say that I've never trusted in God before....that is a must! There have been plenty of times where I have trusted in God for the outcome of a situation and everything worked out.🙌 But to give something to God and have no control of the process or the outcome.... To not have a backup plan... To be in the unknown with no worries...that was a first! I had no idea what would happen when I got on that jet skii. I just knew God had his hand on me and all would be well. And it was. Because I had no fear.
💋

Before jet skiing

See, I came back in one piece!

Off she goes!